[HAWNSGIST] 6 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD STOP DATING HIM

Before the final 'I DO' talk in marriage, a few stages must have been reached, one of which is dating. No one just grab themselves by the roadside or a railway station and lead themselves to the altar. The duo would have reached a compromise, by this,both having a common aim/goal. Marriage,they say is for better-for worse; so I keep on wondering why most marriages do not last long. Seeing Married Couples together celebrating their '25th Year Wedding Anniversary' is just like searching for a rare gem in m the Ocean deep. You know you can get it but you mind is already programmed to believe that it(the gem) is difficult to achieve.

  Most Girls now find themselves in relationship that have no server [Yeah, you read that correctly].

'I think he is the right man for me....I think he is the God-sent...' 

STOP THINKING AND USE YOUR HEAD! <rolling eyes>

 So I'd drop some few reasons why you should stop dating your boyfriend, though, he might be cute <winks> or handsome <blushes> but some guys are just destined to be time-wasters

1. IT DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT

     Instincts are not just feelings. It is a mutual correspondence between a person and his mind. I explain how important your instincts are when you have a bad gut about your relationship. Those red flags won't go away and the relationship won't get better,my friend. If you're uncertain about him - if something is telling you that you shoul leave- then you need to stop dating him immediately. Your 'Spidey Senses' are picking up on something that you may not even be conscious of, and you have to honor that.

2. YOU HAVE TO PRETEND TO BE WHO YOU'RE NOT

     If you can't be yourself witH YOUR boyfriend when you're dating, you won't enjoy supprressing your personality when you're married or living together! If he can't accept you for who you are without telling you stop, then it's time to stop dating  dating him and find a guy who loves you for who you are.

3.   HE IS NOT TOTALLY INTO YOU

    How does he react to your concerns or wishes in your relationship? If he is right and made for you, he'll do everything he can to build a healthy,loving relationship. He'll want to spend time with and make you happy.

'The thing that really annoys me is that he'd rather hang with his friends, but always away from me',says a distressed girlfriend. With this kind of character been exhibited by your boyfriend, One can presume that he is little/not intertested in you.

4.  HE'S NOT COMFORTABLE TALKING ABOUT FEELINGS

     Having a 7th grade emotional maturity level might be common in men,but that doesn't mean you have to settle for no vocal affirmations of your cuteness/funniness/intelligence/general appreciation from the dude you are dating. Every Lady loves been flattered and cajoled[though they do not express this]. If he does not feel comfortable talking about you-your smile-your general purity and awesomeness; you should probably know that there is something wrong with him and you should call for a halt.

5.   HE FINDS FAULTS IN WHATEVER YOU DO

    Your Boyfriend never appreciate whatever thing you do(for him),he is always finding faults in you <chuckles> Girl, I'd say you should flee. You saw a nice Blue Calvin Klein Shirt in the mall and found it deemed fit for your boyfriend; On getting home and handling him the shirt, he began nagging about how much he dislikes the blues.

    If he never accept his fault or he is the kind of guy that blames others for his own mistakes; that relationship is going nowhere. Ladies do hopefully believe that Change is the only constant thing in life, and when you're in self-denial,  beleiving he'll eventually change; this is guaranteed doom!

6.  HE NEVER SAYS THANK YOU

    This is one of the most ideal reason you should stop dating him. He'll never say a' thank you'[no matter what]; nor would he show any sign of appreciation. He believes it is your job or even responsibility to do the things you're doing <smirk>. Whether being in a relationship or not,everybody loves being appreciate,and nonetheless, a little thank you pleases the heart.

  So, If he has this habit of not been thankful, 'Ello Bae',You should STOP dating him; because no matter how far you can go,this absurd behaviour will surely get out of bounds.

With these few highlighted points, you should by now know your stand and where your relationship is heading .

Cc: Oluwatimmy Aluko 'ThatYourubaDemon'