[HAWNSGIST] 5 Ways To Get Over Your Crush Quickly

 

There is this saying which goes thus and I quote, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". But it doesn't say that too much absence often makes one heart cold.

   If you have a crush on someone and they don't feel the same way about you, it can be a very hard task to get over that person and this may develop into long time painful feelings. Getting over your crush is never easy, but there are some tips to help you get rid/over them in order to move on to someone better and tailor-made for you 

  1. DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM HIM OR HER

        One of the most effective and efficient ways of how to get rid of your crush on someone is by distancing yourself from them;reducing and minimizing your closeness. Avoid medium of potential contact, so that you can get over them, by so doing, this prevents any lingering ties that could or ignite your feelings for them. 

  Creating a barrier helps you focus on other things.

  

  2. LET YOUR EMOTIONS OUT

        If you want to forget your crush/get rid of your crush on someone, you have to admit that you have strong feelings for this person. This will eliminate you been in self-denial;when one is in self-denial of this, you'll just keep all those strong feelings inside you instead of letting them go.

  You can let loose of your emotions to someone of confidence, by pouring out your mind, the mind tends to be in a free state.

   

  3. STOP TALKING TO YOUR CRUSH 

        It may sound obvious and weird that you should stop talking to your crush if you want to forget your crush or stop crushing on him/her.

  You don't have to be downrightly rude, but you should make a point of avoiding your crush and not talking to them as much as you can. Stop texting,calling. The sooner you stop seeing your crush and hearing their voice, your mind becomes swayed to the otherwise and this enhance your invulnerability to him/her. 

 

  4. AVOID PLACES WHERE YOUR CRUSH IS LIKELY TO BE

        Though, you do not have to change your schedule completely, if you really want to get rid of your crush on someone, then you have to try to avoid all of the places where you know you'll see them.

  Don't go to their favorite hangouts.Avoid collision in parties(this having great risk of igniting lost feelings).

  Change your routine, seek happiness in nature.

  5. REMOVE THEIR INFO AND TEXT MESSAGES FROM YOUR PHONE

        Another way to assure that you won't have any contact with your crush is to delete his/her contact info from your phone. Also, erasing any text messages from them that you may posses. Deletion of this info won't only help you to get rid of him/her, but also prevent you from contacting them in a moment of weakness.

  If you are reluctant to delete their info, it is acceptable to write it in a piece of paper you won't see everyday and store in a safe place.

  Please, remember even if you delete their contact, they may not delete yours; If they contact you, you can either choose to respond or ignore or even send a short polite response.

Credits: WikiHow

Written by Oluwatimmy Aluko  'ThatYorubaDemon'