Hope for all side chicks (MUST READ)!

This story will give hope to all the ‘side chics’
out there. You can take that giant leap, you just
have to stay true to your self, be cool and offer
value.
The journey started eight years ago; January
2008 specifically.
The harmattan season was winding off, and I
was bored at home with my childhood friend,
Shola. We decided to put a call across to one of
our female friends – Damilola who finished from
the same high school with us – to come and
keep our company. We expected Damilola to
come alone, but on her arrival, she was with two
other friends. One of them was Tolulope.
We welcomed them; but I was a bit surprised
when my father, who didn’t approve of me having
female friends at that time, welcomed them
warmly. He even went as far as offering them
fruit juice. It was a turning point for me. So I just
settled down better to have fun with my visitors.
I noticed one of the girls – Tolulope – was very
reserved; she hardly said a word. I initially
thought she was cold, because she was clad in a
jacket. I tried to force a conversation with her,
but she was coy with her response. I however
made sure to exchange contacts with her when
she was leaving. I did a lot of fantasizing after
she left, but I never really expected anything to
come out of it because I had a girlfriend at that
time.
As at that time, I didn’t have enough money to
call anyone and talk for long minutes, but I thank
God for MTN Xtra Cool, it made it a lot easier for
me to talk with my friends for long hours…at
night.
I called Tolu eventually, but she didn’t pick up
the first time. I thought she was still shy and
didn’t want to talk to me, but I gave it a second
trial and drew a huge breath of relief when I
heard her voice at the other end.
Quite interestingly, we interacted that night as if
we had been friends for years. We talked,
laughed and joked…we even went as far as going
vulgar at some point. It made me abhor the
notion that she was just one of those regular
cheap girls, so I decided to play along.
Three days after we met each other, we started
dating. Remember that I had a girlfriend, who
was the main chic. Tolu was then my side chic.
I got the shocker of my life barely after a week
we started dating. Tolu told me she is a virgin.
“How can you be a virgin, with all those naughty
things we talk about?” I queried her.
But she maintained her word and I saw the
seriousness in her eyes. She swore to me and I
had to believe. The relationship blossomed from
then.
I was a 200 level student of OAU as at then, but
she was about sitting for her JAMB examination.
In my own little selfishness, I talked her into
choosing OAU in her JAMB form. She readily
agreed, and she passed her exams to gain
admission into OAU. By then, I was already in
300 level.
Her coming to OAU brought us closer, and we
were popular as a couple on campus. OAU
students of those years will testify to how
frequently I left my hostel (ETF) to Mozambique
Hall every night to see her. We had a great
relationship, and we also had our challenges, but
love got us through.
We have been dating for eight years now, and in
the next couple of days, we will both be walking
down the aisle to be pronounced man and wife
forever.
That is the story of how Tolulope moved from
side chic to main chic, and now to my wife.
The story makes me believe in the theory of
fatalism; I believe it was destined because I
never had a good relationship with other girls
except her, no matter how hard I tried. With her,
I have had, and I am still having the best
experience.
There are a few lessons here:
The fact that a girl gives in to your advances
within a few days of meeting her doesn’t make
her cheap. Tolu agreed to date me two days
after we met, and now we are about getting
married.
Secondly, you shouldn’t judge a lady by the way
she talks or what she says. I have met several
ladies who don’t say half of Tolu says, but none
of them is better than her in terms of morality
and chastity.
It’s been nice sharing this story, and I hope we
have learnt a few stuff from it. Thank you very
much for this opportunity.